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Leadership With Michelangelo

April 7th, 2010
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The Person Not the Job
There is no future in any job or single product. The future lies in the person who holds the job or sells the product. This steadfast principal is a cornerstone of Personal Branding. Given a similar product or opportunity by two individuals, who do you buy from? You buy from the person who has offered the most value to you. The person who has answered your questions. The person went beyond the simple answers. The person who made themselves available to you. The person who appears to be a leader. Did you read that last sentence? “The person who appears to be a leader.”

Leadership Attracts
People are attracted to leadership. You may have some leadership within your own organization and not even realize it. In fact they may not either. I’m talking about distributors and affiliate marketers, whether it be an MLM or you selling your own product. I’m reminded of a story about Michelangelo. He was asked one day about one of his masterpiece called “David”. He said that the statue had always existed in the stone and he just had to chisel away the rock on the outside. As a leader, you need like Michelangelo. You need to look for your own masterpieces in the people you recruit and people who are already in your organization. Think of this way. When someone discovers gold, it is usually a flake or two or maybe a small nugget. The huge lode is not just laying on the surface of the ground. It is discovered only after digging below the ground where the flakes or nuggets where found. The same is true of individuals.

Qualities and Traits
So what qualities and traits should you look for in your potential leader?

Positiveness occurs while having to work with and see people and situations in a positive way. This only seem natural in that people usually don’t like to hear about doom and gloom all the time. There are enough avenues for this via the daily news.

Servanthood is an ability and willingness to submit, be part of a team, and follow the leader. There is an old saying about paying your dues, whether it be politics, sports, or learning online marketing. If you want to succeed, at some time you are going to have to follow a mentor. A potential leader, by paying their dues, will be in a position to eventually mentor others just as they were.

Growth potential exists when someone is hungry for personal growth and development. They will always be willing to learn more as their role gets bigger.

Follow-through is the guts and determination to get the job done completely and with consistency. This is a hard one for me because we’ve been conditioned to always do something “good enough”. I’m getting better but it’s something we all have to work on.

Loyalty is the willingness to always put the leader and the organization above personal desires.

Resiliency is the ability to bounce back on your feet if you are knocked down. I like the analogy of pulling yourself up by your own boot straps.

Integrity means walking the talk in your trustworthiness and your character. If there was only one characteristic here that I had to choose from, integrity would be it. Solid character may not always be as readily visible as some of the others, but when you see it and recognize it, it stands out above the rest. People are attracted to this tremendously.

Big Picture thinking allows one to see and understand the whole structure and organization and all of it’s need.

Discipline occurs when someone is willing to do what is required to achieve a goal regardless of their personal mood.

I’ll finish up with gratitude. This is one here that has some psychology behind it. At least to me. Most people when complimented say, “Awe, it’s nothing.”. What they are doing in reality is diminishing their effort. After years and years of doing this they are programming themselves to expect less of themselves. A firm and gracious “Thank You” will not only promote your self talk but also instill a sense of connectedness with the person who originally complimented them.

Questions:
So these traits and characteristics are paramount in both recognizing and growing leadership within your organization.

Do you have some I didn’t list?
What are your experiences with them?
Do you have any examples that further demonstrate these characteristics or that you’ve observed?

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  • Beverly Monical says on: April 7, 2010 at 7:10 pm

     

    Love this Chris! Everything you said here is so true. It was good for me to read this today.Thanks for a very good post.
    .-= Beverly Monical´s last blog ..Guest Bloggers =-.

  • Phil Jackson says on: April 7, 2010 at 9:17 pm

     

    Leadership is one of the key elements in successful attraction marketing. The interesting thing is that anyone can achieve it with effort and time!
    .-= Phil Jackson´s last blog ..Effective Leadership: Character Is Required for Effective Leadership =-.

  • Bruce Backman says on: April 7, 2010 at 9:33 pm

     

    Chris…what a great post. How many hidden nuggets are buried even within ourselves that we have yet to unearth to come into our full leadership potential.

    I love the list…it helps me look at myself and see where I may be faltering a bit as well.

    Great Stuff as always!
    .-= Bruce Backman´s last blog ..Communicating a Partial Truth Using Mis-Direction =-.

    • Chris says on: April 8, 2010 at 11:42 am

       

      Thanks Bruce and everyone. While we certainly are not perfect, it certainly has to help knowing what to even examine. Some of these are not always easy to adhere to after being taught in somewhat unethical manners, but if your young and just starting out, there really is no way for you to fail if you live by these traits.

      And you can also teach an old dog new tricks. (Woof!)

      Have a remarkable day.

  • Patrick McIntosh says on: April 8, 2010 at 3:19 pm

     

    Big-Picture-thinking- That is the key for me- Keeping your eyes on the outcomes that you want. Love what you say here. If you have ever been to the David in Florence, there are also Michelangelo’s unfinished works. Fascinating- The form is emerging from the stone and you can look at the stone and see the big picture.
    .-= Patrick McIntosh´s last blog ..What’s your Super-Power? =-.

  • Danielle Zack says on: April 26, 2010 at 3:35 pm

     

    I love this post Chris!

    True leaders can see the brilliance in someone and bring out that brilliance from within. Each of the characteristics you listed are right on and so key. My experience is that you have to determine those that you want to work with, those with the right qualities and those that resonate with you and your personally.

    Awesome information here! I will be sharing this with everyone I know. :)

    Thanks!

    Danielle
    .-= Danielle Zack´s last blog ..Conquering Video Marketing – Part 2 Video Marketing Strategy =-.

  • Robin Lynn Brooks says on: April 29, 2010 at 7:36 pm

     

    Such a positive vibe noted! Awesome post you gave us here Chris!

    I think we really do have to look and listen to get that connectedness.
    And I love that. There are many self checks to make and sometimes
    teachable is the only thing I would accept in absense of other qualities
    and traits (and gotta love enthusiasm! – slightly bridled that is…)
    .-= Robin Lynn Brooks´s last blog ..Listen for that Real Connection in Relationship Building =-.

  • Beth Allen says on: April 30, 2010 at 12:27 pm

     

    I love the reference to Michaelangelo’s story of David….it is such a great example of the power of holding a vision. It takes being crystal clear about what we are looking to create, and then fine-tuning with our chisel along the way. The masterpiece is already there!

    Chris, this is a top notch list of qualities and traits of leadership ~ I couldn’t agree more than integrity stands above the rest.

    Thanks so much for your leadership ~ it is indeed attractive! :)
    .-= Beth Allen´s last blog ..Is Your Attention on Your Intention? =-.

  • Sam Weston says on: April 14, 2011 at 7:22 am

     

    I agree wholeheartedly with the reputed story of Michaelangelo saying that the figure of David resided within the stone and that all he had to do was expose it. This is the true mark of a leader – an individual who can recognize ‘hidden’ talents in others and develop them to the full.

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